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a bullying diary ...

... everyone should / result in any victims of bullying. Such a result in bullying diary really regularly and in detail, makes sure work and requires discipline. However, it performs important functions: it serves to preserve evidence. All events are listed, relationships can be shown Judges, lawyers, travelers, doctors, companies, etc. can read black on white, what exactly has happened just as it also helps in personal management.

is best to use for a big calendar to which you do every day of his messages. Even if nothing has happened, you write "nothing happened" as a note. If the bully is on vacation or you even had a free day, it should be noted that a gap can be explained. Even phone calls and write down the contents.

What information should I write in my diary bullying:

- Date and time

- What exactly happened? Describe action. Who performed the action.

- Who was present? (Potential witnesses)

- How did I feel?

Also in cyber-bullying, the documentation is important. Eg screenshots make insulting comments and saving messages.

More info at "bullying help law "

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Blogettes reported

Mirjam clever by chic & me for the " Blogettes " on "Blog against bullying interviewed.

is my impression that they tend to believe that this action was too much attention to the anonymous commentators. I view this blog as a first point of contact for victims and as a platform for exchange of information for those interested. So attention for those affected!

screenshots from the report I made. If you click on the pictures, they are larger.

I would appreciate a little feedback very much.

Want to read the colorful new edition of "Blogettes", do, please here.

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Forum discussion

I'm on an interesting discussion in encountered FanFiction Forum .

The Board Operator DawiL Danger "wrote the following post and hoped you need:

" Hello love her, here again one of my threads ... but a serious issue .
not worry, I will here no examples or statuieren anything else, but it generally goes to the issue of bullying on the Internet ". my attention was the fact that I lately like to rummage through Fashionbloggs ...

Well what one could read it there as a comment was not really slow solemn.
Well, I do not think anything great, what does this blogger, but that's why I would not write it anyway things like that her face is ugly, etc.
Frankly, even after it is an initiative that is directed against abuse in Bloggkommentaren, I do think that it a topic is to think about that one.

What would interest me most is how does one arrive at that?
Is it the anonymity of the Internet where you can feel great when you can just make a completely unknown person or abuse anonymously? Or is it a general decay of society, which was discussed in several threads already dissipated?

This is due here, practically in the cause of the nasty YouTube comments that are already discussed in another thread: Who does not know who "you are ugly" s under the make-up tutorials, the "all Germans are Nazis" .. under Rammstein Videos . the full range indicated.

Also on FF.de could be in the form of Flames already so read some nice things, so I wonder openly how and why a man do such things?

Attached there was still another issue, namely the other form of Internet bullying, namely, the abuses from their backs - it was a teacher, an unpopular classmate, a colleague, an ex-girlfriend ...
think I just sneaky as the other stuff - it's one thing when you gossip with someone about someone, but another when it is forever recorded in the web.

If it should go like other users, and the expected need for discussion is here, I'm looking forward to discussions and exchange views.

If you want to follow the debate or participate try looking through this forum .

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teachers are often the problem of bullying / bullying and cyber-bullying "overwhelmed recognize or the problem. The city of Bremen has a issued "action guide for teachers on bullying and cyberbullying , which you can download to look at bullying and Web.

The brochure is intended to raise awareness of the bullying problem among students and identify regulatory options and ways out of the cycle of violence. "Bullying has serious consequences for the victims, therefore the teacher must act," the psychology professor Herbert Scheithauer says of the Free University of Berlin.

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The ultimate guide to action bullying

From time4teen :


The bullying can you test to find out if you're already mobbed. Simply write down your scores, add them to and see what happens.

first	your opportunities to express themselves freely are limited.	20 P.
second	You belong to another nationality or religion, than most others in your class.	15 P.
third	of your classmates you will never be invited to private.	5 P.
4th	You'll bothered with telephone terror.	20 P.
5th	The boys fall silent when you enter the room.	10 P.
6th	We laugh at you.	10 P.
7th	Not any more with you.	20 P.
8th	You will constantly criticized.	15 P.
9th	You spread rumors about you.	15 P.
10th	It attacks your personal opinion.	10 P.
11th	you are exposed to sexual harassment or verbal assault.	20 P.
12th	It forces you to do things that violate your self-confidence.	20 P.
13th	It is your decision.	10 P.
14th	Man imitates up, your speed, your voice, your laughter.	20 P.
15th	It gives you tasks that are beyond your capabilities.	10 P.
16th	Man suspected you to be mentally ill.	15 P.
17th	You do not have more joy in your work.	15 P.
18th	you were sick more often lately.	15 P.
19th	You were attracted more often lately.	10 P.
20th	You do not go to class parties or other voluntary school events.	10 P.
21st	you ever been threatened physical violence.	15 P.
22nd	your personal belongings are damaged (school bags, books, pencil case ,...).	10 P.
23rd	You go out less than before.	10 P.
24th	classmates are being incited against you.	20 P.
25th	Man makes jokes at your expense.	20 P.
26th	peers to which you were previously in close contact pull back.	15 P.
27th	You suffer from sleep disorders.	10 P.

The solutions can be found here at time4teen .

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test reaction to the first interview

I googled times around and found an article about "bloggers against bullying" and the first interview with Lia Addams on "The current bullying Rundschau . Maybe you're up there watching.

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The first interview

Emily: I am delighted that I have this interview may lead to the sensitive issue of bullying with you. Can you tell us first give some information about yourself?

Lia: Hi Emily. My name Lia Addams is and I'm 20 years old.

Emily: In a preliminary You told me that you are a victim of bullying in real life. Can you tell us more about the history of what happened?

Lia: It all started that I from the 7th Class went to high school. Unfortunately, I made it only up to the 9th grade. I did the math with no more and had to make the 10th grade, graduated from a normal secondary school in my former hometown. The very first day I felt like I struck against hatred and contempt on the part of students. The eyes and the far too loud Flüstereien. "Look at the times," "What's that?". time I was a goth at right-minded people and shoppers to make clear that I found there are offensive. Threats, sting land, even Handgreiflichleiten were then the norm. A year in hell!

Emily: How was it then? After school, the problem stopped, unfortunately not.

Lia: After school started my training as a social assistant. The went on for two years and everything went great! I found a friend with whom I could talk about everything and had a wonderful time. After the training, we wanted to jointly make the training as an educator and as it began. The classes have been thrown together again. From moment to moment I was not for my alleged girlfriend interesting. I would can cope with, weakening any friendship at some point from, but that it was not even done. suddenly began to whisper to the new student, when I showed up, laughed gleefully and looked in my direction. I was more courageous than the time (in school) and went to them, for the record and asked what it was that. "Oh, nothing!" she laughed and left me standing there. one day I came into the class room and on my desk was a package. When I opened it, it was clear what was going on. In the packet was a razor blade with a note "Have fun with it!". Something piled up. Things that are not could have known, were used against me. Secrets I had never given up, suddenly stood on boards or were retold with a laugh. Finally, and deep scratches on my car, thumbtacks on my chair, "accidentally" poured drinks on me .... it you can probably imagine, my then girlfriend had every little thing I had ever entrusted to her retold and used against me. From the cracks in the former bully time on parental issues to intimate things. I wanted to challenge her, but it never got an answer "why", still not to the question. I dropped out after a year of training. I was nervous at the end, when even the teacher laughed at my request for information only.

Emily: That was a bad time. And it is terrible that you have received no help from teachers. You made a therapy. Has it helped you?

Lia: It was a three-month inpatient treatment group and individual interviews, sports and similar activities. But in the first days I was not all scary. The therapy was developed as a children's garden, so I felt. Painting classes, handicrafts, sports day .... how should I help? The group discussions were a horror. Each problem had to be present and face the criticism of others. I told them about my case from all sides and I was fired from because it was not a problem, I only had no ass in the pants. but I wanted to justify any attempt to make it to the other patients understand how hard this my mind games were classmates, bounced off them. I was the youngest, then 19, the other started from 35 Sure, they took me seriously. When I got louder and then said it would downplay ne cheek my problem, I was thrown by a 60-year-old man with Agressionsproblemen against a wall. And what did the therapist? The sat and took notes. I later went to them, wanted to know why no one intervenes. "This is all part of therapy!" The highlight was when a patient came to the same age with whom I am super understood. We went for a walk. When we returned, we were told we would have to go, because relationships between patients are not allowed. which I waved with my engagement ring around front of his face and pointed out that my friend visited me every weekend. The other patients had told the psychologist that we have a relationship, we would even sneak out at night. Then we had to vacate our rooms. The other patients looked on with folded arms as we packed. "Now here is little room for real problems" pimped then the "rapist"! Whether it helped? No!

Emily: If you fellow patients verbally and physically attacked, a therapist must engage properly. I also think that the therapy was probably the wrong one. It is still good, get professional help. How did you feel after this "failure"?

Lia: first I was just angry hurt, with the nerves at the end, the horror of humanity generally. This then was pure hatred. It later grew the power to make myself against something resistant and anyone too close to let these things.

Emily: Where Have you got support?

Lia: My parents and my friend were there for me after this time, and were more helpful than any doctor in the world.

Emily: How ran out of business?

Lia: I wanted from this thing can not mess up the future and applied immediately to a new education. I was accepted and am now finished my first year. A nice class, and even friends I have found.

Emily: How would you assess the events now somewhat later?

Lia: It still hurts to think of the past. It was so cruel what has been done to me. I could go through the whole again, I would - I believe - respond differently, maybe even laugh about it. But I was just not strong enough.

Emily: Do you have a personal advice that you would like to give to others the way?

Lia: One should never give up. No matter how hard it is is a way it always so complicated it may be. Defend you, whether it is a good countered spell or to you not to put themselves in danger, an appointment with the director, police, etc. Do not let your life, you make something up, because that is exactly what you want to reach people with bullying.

Emily: Thank you Lia that you speak so openly about this subject / write, I find that very brave. For the future, I wish you much strength and good luck!

Photos of Lia Addams

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Wow!

I now have 104 Members registered. 104 times I have a report or a button the "bloggers against bullying - Action on blogs and websites found. I am very happy! Thank you very much!

If I missed someone, please send me an email with your blog URL .. I carry it for you.

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Thank you!

Many thanks to Roberto of COURT 'S QUE who has tinkered for "bloggers against bullying four new buttons .

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million suit against Facebook

provides in the United States are a new cyber-bullying case for attention. Denise Finkel, the name of the victim, accuses the defendants, by been cyber-bullying attacks on the social network to be traumatized. How the U.S. news portal InformationWeek reports, the teenager from Long Iceland, the social networking platform Facebook, including some of its members and their parents sued. Former classmates from high school had its own chat on Facebook - Ready group with which they systematically tried to destroy the reputation of the girl in public. As reparations, the victim in court is now asking for compensation in the amount from three million dollars.

According to the application, four former classmates of the teenager a closed, have set up password-protected chat forum on Facebook. There was then pulled completely without scruples about the girl. It was alleged, among other things, that Finkel consuming intravenous drugs, had inappropriate contact with animals and I was infected with AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases.

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Linktip

LaMiezée has recently dedicated a post to the anonymous Mecker goats. Good thing she does with humor! If you are interested, click here to LaMiezée .

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Les Mads on hate comments

In HATE.Magazin for relevance and style I found an interview with Jessica White Les Mads. Here are some excerpts :

Deutschsprchige fashion bloggers have to deal with comments that are often beyond a good nursery. This has been mainly women going to women. Content like blog posts are ignored me, instead, in outfits slammed offensive and prefers the appearance of the offended bloggers.

HATE : Most of the comments on your blog you get for outfits that same fall as well as the most common and the one that you personally the most blatant attack. How do you deal with this contradiction?

Jessica : It is very easy to judge the taste of others. As some readers will always remember you. We have learned to deal with it - we always accept other tastes / opinions, and ignore the personal attack.

HATE: Did you feel that you will treated worse than other fashion bloggers, because it operates a commercial blog?

Jessica: As no one knew us, we had little negative feedback. Only above a certain size is a welcome one sailed inseparable Goal. But this is not just here a phenomenon that also other known fashion blogs abroad are struggling with this problem.

HATE: If it is more anonymous users, comment out the irrelevant or do you have as well as negative experiences with fellow bloggers do?

Jessica: are 99% to anonymous commentators, taking their mischief. Only in very rare cases, trust other bloggers to write their URL to it. But also happened already.

HATE: you are growing under attack in many different ways, some allow you to criticize the success does not, others very hard your appearance or your taste, others are angry because they feel the presents of you clothes to be too expensive. What makes you cold, what excites you and what you injured?

Jessica: There are actually never set up the comments that hold against your own taste, but comments that false claims / lies about our site, our publishing company or our work. Or unsubstantiated criticism, unfortunately, does not consider the whole complex of our blogs. Like to be positive just dropped under the table, over a spelling error or other small items that people will get upset for hours. We have learned to ignore it all - except konstruktiever criticism. Which there are unfortunately far too rare in the anonymity of the net. Difficult, only the comments that are really personal. As we struggle with even more rarely.

vollstängige The interview can be found in HATE. Magazine for relevance and style .

Photos of Les Mads

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Because cyber-bullying to Gefängsnis

in August 2009 is the first time a teenager because of bullying on the internet been sent to prison. The 18-year-old British woman Keeley Houghton was sentenced to three months in prison because they had threatened on Facebook a former schoolmate to death. The court also their hidden for five years to contact the victim in contact or comments to spread the web.

"It is the first conviction for cyber bullying and is a precedent," Emma-Jane Cross said of the anti-bullying organization, "Beat Bullying.

was early as 2005 was the 18-year-old was found guilty because they former schoolmates to the way home from school in wait and attacked her physically and verbally

source. Mail Online